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They say love is blind. And sometimes this blindness of love is good because it helps you feel and think outside the box and take chance of opportunities you would have otherwise missed. If you are a traditionalist, probably the idea of dating a younger guy (if you are a lady) or an older woman (if you are a man) might sound revolutionary at best but if you are more open minded you will hardly give it a second thought when a younger guy or an older woman attracts you.

Love knows no age. Or more precisely, love does not count the biological age. These days more than ever you are as old as you feel. With so many examples of 60+ actors and singers who behave (and very often look) like under-30, one's biological age seems a very abstract notion. On the other hand, there are many 20-somethings who have enough experience and if one does not know their birthyear, they could easily be mistaken for 30- or even 40-somethings. But what do these two groups have in common?

The common between the two groups is that they are not the average representative of their age group. As a result, these people communicate with more difficulty with their biological peers than with their spiritual peers. As a result of this, people who do not look their biological age, seek friendship and love amongst their spiritual peers.

But sometimes there are different reasons why the age gap is working great in a relationship. And by age gap I don't mean 2 or 3 years but rather 10 or even more. For men, having a much older (and experienced) partner is like having a mother. For ladies, the younger lover is not only a partner, but the baby that deserves all love and affection. In such relationships there is an emotional bond that not many people can understand.

I know many great relationships, in which the lady is older than her partner. These people have been together for years (even decades) and hopefully they will stay so much in love for more years (or even decades).

A male friend of mine has been dating a 3 years younger chick for 5 years hoping that someday she will grow up. Well, he didn't have the patience to wait for her to turn 40 or 50 and left her for a lady, who is 5 years his senior. They are happy together because they share the same way of thinking, have the same values and goals in life.

One of the funniest situation is when somebody says that he does not look 5 years older than her! Can you imagine this? People know that they are 5 years apart and they mistakenly think it is him, who is the older!

2-3 years is no difference at all. 5-7 years is a good difference. Having in mind that on average women live 5-7 years longer than men, chances are that you have found a partner “till death does us part”. This is a joke of course, but biology has its word. While girls develop faster during puberty and are interested in older boys because they are their spiritual peer, after 25, there is no more gender-based difference. After 25 it is more your personality that matters, not your biological age.

So, if you women feel attracted by younger guys and you men feel attracted by older ladies, don't resist the call of your heart but jump straight into love. Who knows, it might turn out that this is the love of your life?




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